About Stephen Forrest
Psychotherapist | 27 Years of Clinical Experience
Integrative Psychotherapy and Existential Analysis. A human, interactive and plain-speaking approach to understanding complex difficulties and the lives we live.
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My name is Stephen. I have been a psychotherapist for 27 years, practising Integrative Psychotherapy and Existential Analysis in Stepps, Glasgow, and online with English-speaking patients in the UK and abroad.
I completed more than six years of psychotherapy training and hold two Master's degrees, in Integrative Psychotherapy and Existential Psychotherapy, both awarded with Distinction.
My approach is broad, integrative and depth-oriented. I work with everyday difficulties, common mental health problems, severe and enduring psychiatric difficulties, and deeper existential struggles. I don't assume that a diagnosis should determine a particular treatment, or that one technique will suit everyone.
I believe it is essential to understand the individual: their unique viewpoint, circumstances and experience of what is troubling them. Only then can we consider what kind of work might be useful or acceptable to them.
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I spent ten years working full-time as a psychotherapist in the NHS, in both primary and tertiary mental health services.
In primary care I worked with anxiety, depression, panic, bereavement and relationship difficulties. In tertiary care I assessed and worked with people experiencing more serious and enduring conditions, including bipolar disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, major depression, personality disorders, schizophrenia, PTSD and eating disorders, as well as the effects of serious trauma and abuse.
I worked alongside many different professionals, including psychiatrists, psychologists, counsellors, GPs, community mental health teams and social workers.
This experience taught me that people's difficulties rarely fit neatly into categories. People with the same diagnosis can have very different histories, relationships and circumstances. Equally, people without a clinical diagnosis can experience profound distress.
Understanding someone requires more than identifying symptoms or applying a familiar explanation. It calls for curiosity, clinical judgement, intellectual independence and a willingness to look carefully at their experience and circumstances. Similar difficulties can have very different meanings and origins.
It also taught me the importance of recognising when psychotherapy may not be the best form of help.
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I work with adults experiencing a wide range of difficulties, including trauma and complex trauma, anxiety and depression, relationship and attachment difficulties, persistent emotional struggles, questions of identity, self-loathing, loss and a persistent sense of unease.
Some people come to me with a particular problem. Others have tried different therapies, received a diagnosis, or learned to function well despite difficulties that remain unresolved.
I work collaboratively and interactively, rather than simply listening, summarising and offering reassurance. Depending on what we discover, therapy may be relatively short and focused, or involve deeper exploration of personal history, relationships, trauma, sense of self and ways of living.
I use a variety of methods, but do not allow a particular model or technique to dictate how I work. My approach is human, unpretentious and plain-speaking. Psychotherapy can involve difficult things, but it need not be formal, mysterious or unnecessarily complicated.
I am also concerned about the increasingly technocratic way in which psychological difficulties can be understood and treated. There is a tendency to classify distress and then select a treatment, as though human suffering were a technical problem with a ready-made solution. But people are not machines, and similar symptoms can have very different origins and meanings. I believe people need to be understood in the context of their own lives, rather than fitted to a predetermined explanation or treatment.
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Throughout my life I have been influenced by existential philosophy and its willingness to question how we live as human beings within the world around us. We often conform against our better nature, accept the unacceptable as normal, and remain silent to avoid upsetting others, being rejected or losing opportunities.
Existential enquiry questions the idea that society's definition of normality should be the measure of the individual.
Our difficulties with self-esteem, anxiety and mental stability do not develop in isolation, as though they were glitches in a computer. They are shaped by our relationships, past experiences, adverse circumstances and the wider society in which we live.
We may learn to suppress ourselves to fit in, and adapt to adverse family dynamics, relationship tensions, cultural expectations, stressful workplaces, economic pressures and events beyond our control. These influences affect how we feel, understand ourselves and live from day to day.
Existential Analysis is concerned not only with our thoughts and preoccupations, but with what it means to live. It asks whether our lives are being shaped by our own truths, principles and needs, or by forces we have not recognised or questioned.
This makes personal awareness and authenticity central to our development: recognising what genuinely matters to us and distinguishing it from what we may have been led to believe is true, right or good. From there, we can take greater responsibility for how we live, guided by conscience, integrity and personal agency.
Existential Analysis also explores questions of meaning, values, purpose and mortality, and what these mean for the choices we make in the present. It considers our needs for freedom, security and belonging, particularly when these are challenged by the world around us. For some people, it also raises questions of spirituality and their place within a wider understanding of life.
Existential enquiry is therefore about more than techniques for changing how we think or feel. It is concerned with the quality and meaning of our lives, work and relationships, and the degree of truth, purpose and passion in the way we live.
Photo: Picture of me and Brim: a dog I rescued in Malaysia
“Stephen has a genuine gift of insight that I believe very few people possess. I have had the fortunate opportunity to work with Stephen to address childhood trauma that was stopping me fulfilling my life. I have been able to revisit past experiences and create a new world for myself. His intuition, natural gift and care meant that every stage of therapy was dealt with astuteness, that on many occasions, I found astonishing. How could someone pin point so accurately my issues, and then to offer a solution so quickly and thoughtfully, I found staggering…He is a true asset to his profession.”
~ testimonial by J.L.
Image: charcoal on paper by the author
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My private patients come from many different backgrounds and seek help with a wide range of difficulties.
Some want help with anxiety, depression, panic, anger, stress or relationship difficulties. Others have survived trauma, including violence, sexual assault and workplace harassment, or experience acute and recurring periods of mental distress. The effects of childhood adversity, as well as less obvious but persistent unhappiness, are also common.
Many have tried different therapies or are taking medication. Others have functioned well outwardly while living with considerable distress for many years.
Depending on what we discover together, therapy may focus on a particular difficulty or involve deeper, longer-term exploration of personal history, relationships, trauma, loss and ways of living that have become unsatisfactory.
Over many years I have spent thousands of hours working with patients and other professionals. I have also undertaken extensive personal psychotherapy as part of my training and development. I have learned what people have found helpful, what they have not, and what has engaged or discouraged them. This experience informs a way of working that is human, transparent, unpretentious and down-to-earth.
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My interest in psychotherapy is not purely academic or professional. I have also experienced periods of difficulty, uncertainty, suffering, trauma and feeling deeply misunderstood.
I grew up in Glasgow and have travelled extensively, encountering people from very different cultures, backgrounds, beliefs and circumstances. My understanding of human distress has developed through these experiences, as well as through adversity in my own life, both as an adult and as a child.
Like many people who seek psychotherapy, I have experienced times of feeling overwhelmed, anxious, uncertain, alone, ashamed, angry or depressed, and times when I simply could not make sense of what was happening to me. At times, I concluded that I must be deeply defective, lacking in worth, or simply too strange for others to understand.
I have also experienced seeking help and not feeling properly understood. These experiences have strengthened my intellectual independence and my belief that people need to be respected and understood as individuals, rather than reduced to labels or judged against social norms.
They have also influenced the kind of therapist I have become: direct but respectful, interested in what is actually happening rather than applying a predetermined explanation or fitting people into intellectual boxes.
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I have longstanding interests and experience in yoga, meditation, photography and the fine arts. I have also worked in the judicial system and with people affected by serious crime, bereavement, mental health difficulties, substance misuse, homelessness, abuse and neglect.
I am a qualified yoga and meditation teacher and have studied Buddhist meditation, including Zen. These practices have influenced my understanding of attention, embodied experience and awareness.
My background in fine art and photography has also influenced how I think about creativity, problem-solving and expression in therapy. Creative approaches can sometimes help people explore experiences that are difficult to express entirely through words.
These interests have become part of the wider experience and perspective I bring to my work.
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Authenticity is a core value in my approach to psychotherapy.
I don't mean the performance of a particular identity, or the idea that we simply have to be ourselves. I mean developing a more honest relationship with ourselves: recognising what genuinely matters to us and distinguishing it from what we may have absorbed from other people, relationships, culture and social expectations.
Questions of authenticity are also questions of conscience and personal integrity. They invite us to examine our choices, values, relationships and assumptions, and to take greater responsibility for how we live.
This does not necessarily mean rejecting the society in which we live. It may mean reassessing its positive and negative influences. We are shaped by relationships, culture and society, and none of us exists in isolation. Authenticity involves developing a more conscious relationship with the world while becoming more self-reliant and autonomous.
A genuine therapeutic relationship is central to this work. I work in a transparent, unguarded and plain-speaking way, and encourage the same honesty from my patients.
As we explore what it means to be more true to yourself, I may sometimes challenge assumptions, ways of relating or familiar responses that seem to be contributing to your difficulties. The purpose is not to judge or impose my values, but to understand what may be sustaining your distress and whether something different is possible.
I do not claim to have a universal method or a solution to every problem. What I offer is substantial clinical and life experience, sound training, intellectual independence, an interest in understanding people in depth, and a willingness to think carefully and creatively about what may help.
See the Resources page, under Change and Authenticity, for further discussion of the difficulties people bring to my practice.