About Stephen Forrest
Psychotherapist | 27 Years of Clinical Experience
Integrative Psychotherapy and Existential Analysis. A human, interactive and plain-speaking approach to understanding psychological difficulties and the lives we live.
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My name is Stephen and I’ve been a psychotherapist for 27 years, practising Integrative Psychotherapy and Existential Analysis in Stepps, Glasgow, and online with English-speaking patients internationally.
I completed more than six years of psychotherapy training and hold two Master’s degrees, in Integrative Psychotherapy and Existential Psychotherapy, both awarded Distinction.
My approach is broad, integrative and depth-oriented. I do not assume that a particular diagnosis automatically determines the right treatment, or that one technique is appropriate for everyone. I prefer to understand the person, their circumstances and the difficulties they are experiencing before deciding what kind of therapeutic work is likely to be useful.
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I spent ten years working full-time as a psychotherapist in the NHS, in both primary and tertiary mental health services.
In primary care I worked with difficulties including anxiety, depression, panic, bereavement and relationship problems. In tertiary care I assessed and worked with people experiencing more serious and enduring difficulties, including bipolar disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, major depression, personality disorders, schizophrenia, PTSD, eating disorders and the psychological consequences of serious trauma and abuse.
This experience has given me the opportunity to work with people with a very wide range of needs, and with many different professionals, including psychiatrists, psychologists, counsellors, GPs, community mental health teams and social workers.
This experience taught me that psychological difficulties rarely fit neatly into categories. People with the same diagnosis can have very different histories, relationships and circumstances, while people without a formal diagnosis can be struggling profoundly.
It also taught me the importance of knowing when psychotherapy is appropriate and when another form of help may be more suitable.
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I work with adults experiencing a wide range of difficulties, including trauma and complex trauma, anxiety and depression, relationship and attachment difficulties, longstanding emotional patterns, questions of identity, loss, and a persistent sense that something is not right.
Some people come because they are struggling with a particular problem. Others have already tried therapy, received a diagnosis, or learned to function well despite difficulties that remain unresolved.
I work collaboratively and interactively rather than simply listening and offering reassurance. Depending on what we discover, therapy may be relatively short and focused, or involve deeper exploration of longstanding patterns, relationships, trauma, identity and ways of living.
My professional approach is to be human, unpretentious and plain-speaking. Psychotherapy can involve difficult things, but I don’t believe it needs to be overly formal, mysterious or unnecessarily complicated in practice.
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I am particularly influenced by existential philosophy and its concern with how we live as human beings within the world around us.
Our difficulties do not develop in isolation. Family, relationships, culture, social expectations, circumstances and what goes on in the wider world all influence how we feel, understand ourselves, and how we live.
Existential Analysis is concerned not only with how we adapt to our circumstances, but also with whether the life we are living is genuinely our own.
For me, this makes authenticity an important part of our individual development: recognising what genuinely matters to us, distinguishing it from what we have absorbed from others, and gradually taking greater responsibility for how we choose to live as an act of self-empowerment.
This can also involve questions of meaning, values, purpose, mortality, belonging and, for some people, spirituality.
Photo: Picture of me and Brim: a dog I rescued in Malaysia
“Stephen has a genuine gift of insight that I believe very few people possess. I have had the fortunate opportunity to work with Stephen to address childhood trauma that was stopping me fulfilling my life. I have been able to revisit past experiences and create a new world for myself. His intuition, natural gift and care meant that every stage of therapy was dealt with astuteness, that on many occasions, I found astonishing. How could someone pin point so accurately my issues, and then to offer a solution so quickly and thoughtfully, I found staggering…He is a true asset to his profession.”
~ testimonial by J.L.
Image: charcoal on paper by the author
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My private patients come from many different backgrounds and seek help for a wide range of difficulties.
Some want help with a particular problem such as anxiety, depression, panic, anger, stress or relationship difficulties. Others have longstanding habits and patterns, trauma, childhood adversity, attachment difficulties, or a persistent sense that something is not right, and want to understand these difficulties more deeply.
Some have already tried therapy or received a diagnosis. Others have functioned well outwardly while struggling internally for many years.
Depending on what we discover together, therapy may be relatively focused or may involve deeper and longer-term exploration of history, relationships, trauma, emotional patterns, identity, and ways of living.
Over many years I have spent thousands of clinical hours working with patients and other professionals. I have also undertaken extensive personal psychotherapy as part of my training and personal development.
I know what has been helpful, and what hasn’t; what has engaged people and what has put them off. This experience informs a way of working that is human, unpretentious, transparent, and plain-speaking.
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My interest in psychotherapy is not purely academic or professional. I have also experienced periods of difficulty, uncertainty, suffering and feeling very misunderstood.
I grew up in Glasgow and have travelled extensively, encountering people from very different cultures, backgrounds, beliefs and circumstances. Some of my understanding of human distress has come from these local and more global experiences, as well as from difficulties and adversity in my own life, both as an adult and as a child.
Like many people who seek psychotherapy, I have experienced times of feeling overwhelmed, anxious, uncertain, alone, ashamed, angry, depressed, or simply unable to make sense of what was happening to me.
I have also experienced what it is like to seek help and not feel properly understood. These experiences have contributed to my belief that people need to be met, respected, and understood as individuals rather than reduced to labels or problems.
They have also influenced the kind of therapist I have become: direct but respectful, interested in what is actually happening rather than simply applying a predetermined explanation or fitting people into intellectual boxes.
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Alongside psychotherapy, I have longstanding interests and experience in yoga, meditation, photography and the fine arts. I have also worked in the judicial system and with people affected by serious crime, bereavement, mental health difficulties, homelessness, abuse and neglect.
I am a qualified yoga and meditation teacher and have studied Buddhist meditation, including Zen. My experience of these practices has influenced my understanding of attention, embodiment, emotional experience and awareness.
My background in fine art and photography has also influenced the way I think about creativity and expression in therapy. Where appropriate, creative approaches can sometimes help people explore experiences that are difficult to express entirely through words.
These interests are not substitutes for psychotherapy. They are part of the wider experience and perspective I bring to my particular way of working.
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Authenticity is a core value in my approach to psychotherapy.
By authenticity, I don’t mean the performance of a particular identity or the idea that we simply have to “be ourselves”. I mean developing a more honest relationship with ourselves, recognising what genuinely matters to us, and distinguishing this from what we may have absorbed from other people, relationships, culture and social expectations.
Existential psychotherapy is concerned not only with how we adapt to our circumstances, but also with whether the life we are living is genuinely our own.
For me, this makes authenticity an important part of individual development and the paths we make for ourselves in life. Am I doing what truly matters to me in this short life? Or am I living a life that reflects what has been expected of me by others? These questions of authenticity can prompt us to become more aware of our choices, values, relationships and assumptions, and gradually taking greater responsibility for how we live.
This does not necessarily mean rejecting the society in which we live. But it may mean reassessing its positive and negative influences upon us. We are shaped, after all, by relationships, culture and society, and none of us exists in isolation. Authenticity means developing a more conscious relationship with the world while becoming more fully ourselves.
A genuine therapeutic relationship is central to this kind of work. I try to work in a transparent, unguarded and plain-speaking way, and I encourage the same honesty from my patients.
In the service of helping you be more true to yourself, I may sometimes challenge self-defeating patterns, assumptions or ways of relating when I believe this may be useful. The purpose is not to judge or impose my own values, but to help us understand what may be maintaining unnecessary struggles or suffering, and to consider whether something different is possible.
I do not claim to have a universal method or a solution to every problem. What I can offer is substantial clinical and life experience, broad training, a natural willingness to try to understand things beyond mainstream ways of thinking, an interest in understanding people at depth, and a willingness to think carefully and creatively about what may actually be useful.
Sometimes that can mean focused therapeutic work. Sometimes it can involve sustained psychotherapy. Sometimes another form of help may be more appropriate.
My aim is to understand enough of your situation to arrive ar that judgement responsibly.